Simple Ways to Add a Bit of Spice

This post uses one naughty word; consider yourself warned.

Here’s a suggestion: get a mirror, a nice big one, and hang it beside your bed.  Why?  Because it is damn hot to watch your partner and yourself in the middle of sex.  I discovered this by accident because MM rearranged some furniture and ended up leaning a mirror against the wall next to his bed to get it out of the way.  I didn’t really pay any attention at first, but the second or third time I was at his house, in his bed, I caught a glimpse of us in that mirror, naked, thrusting.  And it sent my temperature way up.  Now when I think of that mirror and us fucking in the bed next to it, it’s all I can do to not drop everything and head to his place for a little afternoon delight.

And you?  Have you found simple things that have (unexpectedly or not) ramped up the heat of your sexual encounters?

 

some of my favorite positions

(Yep, another post about sex positions.  I haven’t included diagrams in the post this time, just links, so you can click ‘read more’ here without seeing any Not Safe For Work imagery.)

food and water

In our first few months of marriage,  he  spontaneously attacked me once with brownie batter. I have *never* forgotten that.

Last night it was chocolate frosting.