Tag Archives: sexual advice

Simple Ways to Add a Bit of Spice

4 Nov

This post uses one naughty word; consider yourself warned.

Here’s a suggestion: get a mirror, a nice big one, and hang it beside your bed.  Why?  Because it is damn hot to watch your partner and yourself in the middle of sex.  I discovered this by accident because MM rearranged some furniture and ended up leaning a mirror against the wall next to his bed to get it out of the way.  I didn’t really pay any attention at first, but the second or third time I was at his house, in his bed, I caught a glimpse of us in that mirror, naked, thrusting.  And it sent my temperature way up.  Now when I think of that mirror and us fucking in the bed next to it, it’s all I can do to not drop everything and head to his place for a little afternoon delight.

And you?  Have you found simple things that have (unexpectedly or not) ramped up the heat of your sexual encounters?

 

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If you have a bad back. (Advice from Marylou Naccarato)

12 Jun

I have some on-again off-again back problems. So I was pleased to stumbled upon this diagram from Mayrlou Naccarato about good positions to use if you have back and/or hip issues.

Marylou blogs about issues of sexuality and intimacy for people with short stature or disabilities.  I have not yet had a chance to go through her archives but am very interested to see what information she has.  The websites are sex postive so be aware that if you click on these links there may be Not Safe For Work imagery. Here’s Marylou’s website.  And here’s Marylou’s column at Dodson and Ross.

Now, these diagrams are tastful, but they *are* diagrams of sexual positions.  Click ‘read more’ at your discretion.  Continue reading

how beautiful on the mountains. (wanting a teacher)

11 Jun

Heads up, this post is Safe For Work, but references an R rated movie and talks about masturbation as a way of improving partner sex.  Read more at  your own discretion.  Continue reading