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the elusive “O”

7 Jul

So, as part of my little rant the other day (btw, I am feeling much better now, thanks) I mentioned having sex but not climaxing and how frustrating that was. Actually my exact words were:

“I take that back, we had sex once but I wasn’t able to come.  Close… but not all the way.  Which is worse, imho, than none at all.”

Anon asked a very important question pertaining to that statement, and I’d LOVE the chance to discuss this.  She queried:

“…obviously we hear all the time about how great orgasms are and even the OP mentioned that sex without an orgasm is worse than no sex at all, so I was wondering is there ANY redeeming value to sex without an orgasm? Can’t it still be nice and create a closeness?…” Continue reading

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