Tag Archives: clitoris

the elusive “O”

7 Jul

So, as part of my little rant the other day (btw, I am feeling much better now, thanks) I mentioned having sex but not climaxing and how frustrating that was. Actually my exact words were:

“I take that back, we had sex once but I wasn’t able to come.  Close… but not all the way.  Which is worse, imho, than none at all.”

Anon asked a very important question pertaining to that statement, and I’d LOVE the chance to discuss this.  She queried:

“…obviously we hear all the time about how great orgasms are and even the OP mentioned that sex without an orgasm is worse than no sex at all, so I was wondering is there ANY redeeming value to sex without an orgasm? Can’t it still be nice and create a closeness?…” Continue reading

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finding my clitoris

22 May

By way of introduction: I”m a raised-in-the-church-but-now-non-believing thirty-something female, partnered for 10 years to an LDS man, mother to one.  And no I do not have a temple recommend, so feel free to take whatever I say with as much salt as you need.  Hi, nice to meet you! 😉

I got a Brazilian bikini wax a few months ago (yes, ouch.  But  I’ve been maintaining it every month and it’s much less ouchy now that the initial bush whacking has taken place.)

After my Partner of 10 years got over the shock, his next reaction (after sex) was “hey, I think I finally figured out where your clitoris is!”  (Yes.  It was particularly nice sex.) Continue reading