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Let’s define pornography addiction.

10 Aug

It’s become increasingly clear to me, at least, that we don’t have a handle on what “pornography addiction” actually means in the context of doctrine and culture.

I’m mostly calling on people who consider themselves to be addicted to pornography to say exactly what that means. You have an entire porn library that you watch on a regular basis? Or, every once in a while, you catch a dirty picture in the course of your normal activities, you stop and look at a few, get off, then go about your day? Or you saw a naked person once and you can’t get the image out of your mind?

Before we can really talk about it in a constructive manner, we need to know people’s definitions and then maybe establish some sort of baseline.

What does “pornography addiction” mean to you?

Masturbation 101

21 Jun

My  sister-wife Eliza wrote a post about masturbation and sex toys, and as I read it and the comments that followed, it dawned on me that stepping back and giving some basic information might be helpful to some sisters. Our levels of comfort with these things vary widely, and while some of us might be perfectly comfortable talking about sex toys, some of us might be quite intimidated  and not be sure what, really, masturbation or a sex toy even is, other than something to talk about in hushed whispers, if at all. Continue reading

masturbation and sex toys.

21 Jun

Yep, this one is about masturbation. and sex toys too. Continue reading

how beautiful on the mountains. (wanting a teacher)

11 Jun

Heads up, this post is Safe For Work, but references an R rated movie and talks about masturbation as a way of improving partner sex.  Read more at  your own discretion.  Continue reading

finding my clitoris

22 May

By way of introduction: I”m a raised-in-the-church-but-now-non-believing thirty-something female, partnered for 10 years to an LDS man, mother to one.  And no I do not have a temple recommend, so feel free to take whatever I say with as much salt as you need.  Hi, nice to meet you! ;)

I got a Brazilian bikini wax a few months ago (yes, ouch.  But  I’ve been maintaining it every month and it’s much less ouchy now that the initial bush whacking has taken place.)

After my Partner of 10 years got over the shock, his next reaction (after sex) was “hey, I think I finally figured out where your clitoris is!”  (Yes.  It was particularly nice sex.) Continue reading

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